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It is a gut-punch of a line. In a film full of grand gestures and airport dashes, the truest love story turns out to be the one about a washed-up singer and his loyal, long-suffering friend.

But the thread that binds them all is not love itself—it is the fear of love. The fear of saying it too soon (Jamie and Aurélia). The fear of saying it to the wrong person (Sarah’s tragic devotion to her mentally ill brother). The fear of saying it at all, as embodied by Mark (Andrew Lincoln), who spends the entire film in silent, self-defeating adoration of his best friend’s new wife. Love Actually

Then there is the Prime Minister (Hugh Grant) and Natalie (Martine McCutcheon). Their romance is pure fairy tale—the nation’s leader falling for a “chubby” junior staffer from Wandsworth. But Grant’s famous dance down the stairs of 10 Downing Street to The Pointer Sisters’ “Jump” is not just charming. It is an act of liberation. For one giddy moment, power is overthrown by joy. Of course, no conversation about Love Actually is complete without acknowledging its problematic elements. The Colin Firth storyline, while sweet, hinges on a proposal to a woman with whom he shares almost no verbal language. The entire “Colin in America” subplot (Kris Marshall’s character traveling to Wisconsin because British women don’t appreciate him) has aged like milk left out of the fridge. And the treatment of women’s bodies—from Natalie’s “size zero” insult to the casual fat-shaming—feels jarringly out of step today. It is a gut-punch of a line

It opens with the sound of arrivals at Heathrow Airport. As the camera pans through the crowds of tearful reunions and tight embraces, a voice—Hugh Grant’s, playing the newly elected Prime Minister—tells us something we desperately want to believe: “Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrival gate at Heathrow Airport.” The fear of saying it too soon (Jamie and Aurélia)

The question is: why? On paper, Love Actually is a mess. It follows ten separate stories involving a cast of nearly three dozen characters, from a struggling writer (Colin Firth) and his Portuguese housekeeper to a pair of pornographic body doubles (Martin Freeman and Joanna Page) who find unexpected tenderness in simulated intimacy.

And that, actually, is love. So, this Christmas, put on the pajamas, pour the eggnog, and press play. The arrival gate is waiting.

Twenty years after its release, Richard Curtis’s ensemble romantic comedy Love Actually remains the cinematic equivalent of that arrival gate. It is messy, overcrowded, occasionally chaotic, and overwhelmingly sentimental. But year after year, as the Christmas lights go up and the first snowflakes fall, we return to it. We forgive its flaws, quote its best lines, and cry at the same cue cards every single time.